When I became the part of this hop blog I didn’t have any idea about the theme that it was on a decade. Many thoughts came in my mind. Firstly, I decided to write on fiction but then I make my mind and decided to share my story with you. A story about what all happened with me in the last decade.
A story how an emotional lady turns into a strong woman in the last decade. Yes I have gone through the different phases such as happy, sad and even tough period that has made me so strong that now I don’t scare to lose anyone neither I scare to fight any battle in my life, whether it is related to health or anything else, emotionally or mentally.
Let’s start with the year 2009
This year was very delightful for me as I was enjoying my motherhood with my adorable daughter who was just 2 years old. I was a homemaker who loves baking cake and making new innovative food dishes.
It was going on very smoothly with my small but happy family with little ups and downs in our life. Then in the year 2012, I was blessed with a baby boy who completed our family. Everything was going nicely with my two kids, family and hubby.
I used to share my food pictures on Facebook and everyone used to appreciate my cooking skills. On one fine day one female stranger suggested me to take part in a food contest on Facebook and from there I was introduced to a whole new world of Social Media . I won for the first time, though it was a small winning but I was happy that I won. I remember that the prize that I got was a small mixer grinder. I started taking part in a different type of contests and have won many big prizes smartphones, apple iPad, cash prizes and many more things. In fact, every alternate day my door was knocked by the courier man. Those were the golden days of life.
The journey took an another turn when in the year 2013 I started working as an influencer on Twitter
The year 2014 was a very special year for me as it was my 10th-year anniversary which I celebrated by giving lots of surprise to my hubby in different ways.
A drastic change came when I got very sick due to asthma in the year 2015 and I lost my 3rd baby as due to some medical issue I have to go for abortion which led me to depression. I was not able to take care of my kids & went into a silent mode and stop talking with anyone. Those were a hard time for me which took more than 3-4 months for me to come out of this.
As I have seen 2 death in my family because of depression and was seeing how my kids are suffering because I am not able to take care of them. I make myself strong and get back to my routine work, both home and online so that depression don’t hit me back.
Everything was going in full swing till the year I started my own blog. Let me tell you that I was not a writer. Yes writing was never my cup of tea but I don’t know how it started and it’s the 3rd year of blogging. During all these years, I have been diagnosed with many diseases, spondylitis, arthritis, asthma, thyroid, cyst but nothing stop me from my work.
Let me tell you I am very emotional person and quite a darpok person, who can’t stay alone but last year because of CAA I have to stay alone due to the sudden announce of curfew in my city. My kids got stuck in my parent’s home and my in-laws and hubby were out of station and my area was in a bad turmoil. All the incidents were happening on the streets and I was watching them from my balcony being captivated in the four walls of my home. I have witnessed all with my eyes.
But never mind as this phase has made me me very strongly that now I don’t scare. I felt that God has shown me the way so that in future if I have to face any difficulties I can fight with it.
So this is what happened in my last decade and Now I am happy with everything
My work is my passion or you can say it’s my child whom I can’t leave (my work, my blog ). I published an ebook Ehsaas – A special feeling with the help of blog chatter. Started giving campaign as a campaigner and now working as an entrepreneur.
This last decade has made me the strongest person who is independently working and living a happy life with her family and kids. Though during this journey I lost a few friends who were very close to me. I understand the value of time, family and most importantly, I learned it’s good to be practical in life.
“This post is a part of ‘ DECADE Blog Hop’ #DecadeHop organished by #RRxMM Rashi Roy and Manas Mukul. The Event is sponsored by Glo and co-sponsored by Beyond The Box , Wedding Clap, The Colaba Store and Sanity Daily in association with authors Piyusha Vir and Richa S Mukherjee”